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Blogtastic!

Posted by Mary Diamond on 02/25/2008

This past Saturday night I hosted bachelorette party for a good friend, and boy was that stressful. In the end, all my obsessing over details, procrastinating, and scrambling at the last minute to make the event live up to my mental vision (story of my friggin LIFE!) turned out to be an unhealthy and unnecessary waste of energy. Things came together pretty well -aside from my causing the bachelorette and maid of honor to be over an hour late for dinner.

The bride had a BLAST, danced her butt off, and actually ended up profiting off one of the games I came up with on the fly. My husband believes that these events should be top secret, like forever, so I won’t go into detail… but in the long run it really felt good to see the girls enjoying themselves.

On the home front, I’m thinking of making a schedule for each day of the week in order to create a more consistent lifestyle for the kids and to help get our family’s social and physical wellness on track. It seems like life just grabs me sometimes and throws me way out into left field. The problem with that is that I’m a stay at home mom, and people rely on me to be responsible in so many situations that I often feel like a complete failure. Even my blogging is becoming more sporadic than I’d like. Maybe once I finish the schedules I’ll post a rough draft here and you can all tell me what you think. Is that obsessive? I hope not.

 


I signed up for payperpost for a little while ago and just found out I got approved! I’m pretty excited about the idea of blogging within a kind of format, but I’m still kind of unsure how the whole thing will work.

There seem to be a lot of cool options and opportunities on the site, and I like that instead of “customer service” they sign all their help text and such with “customer love”. That’s cute. Also, I’ve been checking out the opportunities and the vast majority of them are relevant to me -so I think anybody reading here would benefit from hearing about them.

So maybe, after all these years of blogging about things I do or buy and what I do or don’t like -I can start to maybe benefit in more than just a theraputic way from all my hard work. =)

I’ll have to go chat up some of the PayPerPost veterans and see if they can tell me what it’s all about. So far, I’m really hopeful and anxious to get rolling with the posts. So stay tuned!



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Who am I to judge?

Posted by Mary Diamond on 01/15/2008

So my husband and I have been beset by MySpace drama. Actually, the drama has nothing to do with MySpace, per se, but it was the medium used to deliver a couple of nasty letters.

The situation itself is really not worth writing about at this point; he and I have both blogged it out in our private journals on separate sites. The philosophy of Objectivism, however, shed a bit of light on the subject for me.

It’s been years since I picked up anything by Ayn Rand. Honestly, I tried reading The Fountainhead for a class and ended up going to the cliff’s notes just to get through in-class discussions. The class I was taking was run by the chair of the philosophy department, and we had differing philosophies on a number of topics. Some professors really have convinced themselves that no other interpretation of a text can be accepted but that which they’ve decided to teach.

But recently I looked into a scholarship which would require me to write an essay on Atlas Shrugged, and I realized too late that I lent out my (unfinished) copy.

I think I’ll seek out a used copy and maybe try again at reading the whole thing. I do have The Fountainhead, and a book of short essays, entitled The Virtue Of Selfishness. Basically each essay answers a question, which is used as the title of the piece. One, Rational Life in an Irrational Society? seems to really address -on some levels- the situation at hand.

See, I don’t believe that it’s “gossip” to state the truth about someone, especially when asked a direct question. If you’re passing judgment on someone, then so be it. Judge, and prepare to be judged based on your own alignment. That’s basically what Rand says in the essay. My husband and I, by passing judgment on someone we know and condemning their actions, have offended them.

Frankly, I think that people who do bad things deserve to be talked about. If no one ever objects to evil, and everyone just quietly stands by, then we’re all accomplices to evil. Ayn Rand agrees with me.

I’m going to be doing more reading, I think, on rational selfishness and objectivism. Of course, I’m not willing to become an atheist -but Rand’s writings and philosophies were always very one-sided and uninformed when it came to the subject of belief in a divinity. She seems only to address (and condemn) the judeo-Christian dogma.

In any case, she makes a lot of sense on a lot of other subjects. I, for one, place a helluva lot of importance in both my personal and professional experiences on individual responsibility. Perhaps we should all consider this quote around voting time in our next election:

“An irrational society is a society of moral cowards –of men paralyzed by the loss of moral standards, principles, and goals. But since men have to act, so long as they live, such a society is ready to be taken over by anyone willing to set it’s direction. The initiative can come from only two types of men: either from the man who is willing to assume the responsibility of asserting rational values -or from the thug who is not troubled by questions of responsibility.

No matter how hard the struggle, there is only one choice that a rational man can make in the face of such an alternative.”

-Ayn Rand, April 1962

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